Category: Facebook addiction (Page 2 of 2)

Life after leaving “the book”

It’s been a few months since I deleted my Facebook account once and fo rall. I felt that Facebook took away my friends and a big part of my life and productivity, but my friends and acquaintances felt differently..

Many of them felt that I didn’t want them in my life, or thought I was being a jerk for unfriending them (take this seriously! People were killed for unfriending some people!) and the general attitude was very unfriendly.

In short, I had no social life (ironic isn’t it?)

I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that some people who have my number, email, know where I live still want to have me on Facebook when they could just call me and get this over with!

Social stigma

I’ve been called a nerd for not having a Facebook account (kind of weird isn’t it) and many people are staying away because I don’t have an account on the site, while there are many social options to choose from. One statement in particular I found really alarming as one of my friends said after I deleted my Facebook I went “off the grid”, so Facebook is the grid now? This friend has my number and knows my website, how can I be off the grid if my blog is active?
I prefer to have real friends, like the ones you had before signing up to Facebook, people to meet and talk to, not some avatar and a couple of likes!

Chat Apps

I agree that chat apps help communicate people in an effective cost efficient type of way, I don’t believe that the cost should be one’s life!
I missed out on many announcements and events, because it’s so much easier to create a page than to have a proper website. Where I live many companies and government offices use Facebook to communicate with customers, and to be able to know what’s going on you need to have an account, and from what I saw, people don’t have Facebook accounts, Facebook has people!
It owns them and I simply refuse to be treated that way!
And just for the record, Facebook owns Instagram and Whatsapp.
I say what’s next!!

Final words

While my friends and acquaintances continue to live the way Mark wants them to live, succumbing every last bit of detail voluntarily to the site, I remain to be the holdout, while Facebook continues to expand eating away all competition, I’ll be watching it, living it, and not posting about it..
There are tons of chat apps out there where you can chat without being owned.

**An update: Facebook went out for 21 minutes on September the 25th, so many people were lost and confused!

Facebook! is it time for you to quit? Part 2

Today we are continuing with the “Is it time for you to quit Facebook” In part two we shed light on new aspects of the site. I hope you are ready. For those of you who just joined. I highly recommend you read the first part and take the challenge before coming here! So bookmark this page and comeback later. The rest of you, follow me.

We discussed in the first part many points regarding Facebook. Now in the second part we will look at Facebook from other angles.

 

These things are being done by Facebook

 

Killing social interaction

Have you ever sat in a public place and everyone was looking at their “smart phone” every 10 seconds. If you have, you aren’t alone.

 

Facebook has a billion users. At least half the room already have it. As you become more connected. You become more isolated!

Turning people into zombies

Are the people you know having trouble sleeping. Drinking coffee all the time? Easily agitated? Yet they are on-line all the time? Coincidence?

It’s Facebook because it’s the 1# site and it applies to any site you are addicted to.

Many people came to me and said I have a personal beef with Facebook.
And that I should target other sites as well. It could apply easily. But I’ve never seen anyone addicted to blogger for example!!

You read 5 pages of news feed. That’s 150 pages a month and 1800 pages a year!!!

 

If you read half of these in any topic you would earn a master’s degree! (Could be!) But instead you just scroll aimlessly trough this and that. Just liking stuff on the go. What did you gain? You aren’t even having fun!! You can do better with your life!

You are turning into this.. slowly

Scary isn’t it? This is the human of the year 3000. I think his ancestors were die-hard daily engaging post liking Facebook users!

 

It’s spying on you (goes as far as taking pictures of you!!).

I don’t have solid facts. But good friends swear of this, that Facebook on the phone accesses your personal pictures and uploads it somewhere. See the permissions of the app if you don’t believe me! It’s a fact that Facebook knows every open tab in the browser while you are logged in. Scary huh?

Facebook the home wrecker?

Yes! Why are you so surprised? Facebook has ruined many relationships and it’s continuing to do so as we speak. Read this piece and see how silly people can get when caught up in the Facebook drama

 

 

Last but not least. Do you even know how to delete your account?

Many of my friends don’t know how or where to go to delete the account. Some thought it was impossible. While it’s not. You have the right to at least do that.

 

After Facebook changed the TOS which you agree upon when you next sign-in. Your data will live there for a while after you delete the account. But eventually it will be deleted.
To make matters worse. Facebook violates Safe Harbor treaty, which made the EU warn it’s people of using Facebook!!

 

Final words

If you ever find yourself wondering or looking around for something worth posting on Facebook. Then you are in serious trouble. And I advice you to reconsider your choices. Visiting this site is a good first step. But there is a limit for my reach. You have to take the grand first step to breaking free of this digital prison.
What do you think of this post? Did you take the 24 hour challenge? How did it feel?
Please comment below and let me know 🙂

Facebook. Is it time for you to quit?

Hey there you guys!

How is it going? How are things?

Facebook no more

Facebook has became one of the most visited sites on the planet! Everybody has an account or two on it! It’s very popular and very entertaining! With everything you like and the chance to communicate with almost anybody anywhere on earth! It’s amazing isn’t it?

No! Not really..

If checking Facebook is the first thing you do when waking up and the last before you go to sleep. You might be hung up on the site, no you say? When was the last time you checked yours?

It’s more serious than you think. The term “Facebook addiction” is not a laughing matter!!

 

Have you stopped to think how much time you spend on Facebook? How many times you log in “just to see what’s going on”?

Sites like this should support your life, don’t let it take away your life!

When was the last time you spoke to someone? Read a book? Did one of the hobbies you forgot after signing in to Facebook?

If you answered the previous questions with long thinking pauses. You are in trouble!

The site is designed to be a maze! Once you get in you lose your way out!

Does a like mean anything now? A simple “lol” is how we laugh? Will we save the starving people in Africa by sharing a picture? Is this the future of mankind?

 

Get out of Facebook and reclaim your life.

know you feel skeptic about all this. But all my friends are there! I play my games on it! It’s my source of news and current events. I can’t get out!

Really? What was your life before that? You make it sound like Facebook is your whole life!

Once you quit Facebook you will gain many benefits:

A lot more time!

You would be amazed by the time you used to spend on Facebook! And the things it kept you from doing! Instead of Facebooking about it, go do it!

 

You will save money!

You won’t believe the amount of things you bought just because you saw in an ad on Facebook or because someone you know bragged about it on Facebook!

A good night sleep!

You will enjoy a sound asleep! You won’t care about the post you had a fight on, or how many likes your new photo has got. You won’t be woken up in the middle of the night by an annoying chat. Or notifications from a post you liked without paying attention. This is very risky. The site is on all the time. 24 hours a day. This messes with your sleeping cycle. There is ALWAYS something to do. Someone is online to talk to. Good bye sleep cycle and hello insomnia. Thus more Facebook.

Piece of mind

With all that useless crap out of your life, the levels of stress and anxiety are bound to drop! You will feel much more relaxed. And it’s all thanks to you walking away out of Facebook.

 See the pun here?

 

You will think for your own

No more know it all jerks to tell you how to live your life! How to dress, where and what to eat, where to spend the next vacation. Or those hair transplant ads 😛
No more of being a brainless zombie who checks his pocket every 30 seconds to see who did what or who is feeling down.

 

Your life is yours again

Your privacy is a rare treasure to keep in this digital age. It’s very awkward one someone you barley know asks you: How do you feel after you broke up with (…) after an 18 month relationship? What? How did you know? Oh wait..

Your battery and data plan will thank you!

It depends on your browsing and device type. But if you were like me, oh man will they thank you or what? I was a wreck! Daily online. Liking and commenting on. No matter where or when. Even on my desk working or even at driving (Never again)!!

 

You will be more productive!

Have you heard the joke going: What’s the best way to make money out of Facebook?
Go to Account settings Deactivate account. And get to work!
It’s true! Do you know how much the economy loses every year because of delayed work? Delayed because office workers are Facebooking? A lot! (Google it).
As simple as that: You will do more.

 

Speaking of work, you will increase your chances of keeping your job or getting a new one!

You don’t believe me? How many people have been fired because of something they posted on Facebook? A lot!
A lot of people add their colleagues and managers on Faceook, which means merging personal life with work and social media.
Many people forget that the rants they post can be misinterpreted, or pretending to be sick while you are actually on the beach (true story and the employee was fired on the spot because her manager saw her post).
n many cases, human resources depend on Facebook to learn about the true identity of people who applied for jobs (not the neat things they have written in their resume), many people are rejected based on their interests, friends and posts.
When I say that Facebook could get you fired or keep you unemployed, you better believe it!

 

You will lose weight!

I’m not joking with you! Combine all the elements! You are out there. In the sunlight. Smelling the fresh air. Walking and working. Seeing people and interacting. You will move more, thus losing more weight. Magic!!

After all these reasons I think you began to change your mind dear reader. And if you still don’t believe me. Take the following challenge:

 

The 24 hour abstinence challenge

Stay away from Facebook for 24 hours. Seems like nothing huh? I’m not finished.

You aren’t allowed to log into the site. Check notifications. Read e-mail notifications. In short for 24 hours I want you to pretend like you don’t have an account. Come back later and tell me when did you crack 😉

f you experience a mild headache and the recurrent tendency to check your phone / tablet / PC over and over again. You need help. And bad! (Just assuming).

And you have (unknowingly) took the first step of getting out!

Try to deactivate your account for a day. Just that. No need to rush things (Only an idiot tries to quit cold turkey).

Then reactivate it. And try for two days. And like wise.

Attempting to quit

Only after leaving the site for weeks on end you can truly value life without it. And if you are the kind to check the site once in every blue moon this post isn’t really for you. I’m talking about the guys who walked in and never found the way out!
Please be nice and let the people you know and care for that you are leaving the site, and leave contact information, unless you want to go “off the grid”..

 

What’s the alternative?

You don’t need 3000+ friends and 7 pages to manage! That’s just too much.

Leave your closest people nearby. There are a lot of great ways. Go see them for a change! If they live away call them! Fear the high toll of calls use Voip services like Viber or Whatsapp for example. In the end it’s up to you.

Texting can be fun. Done the right way and in the right time with the right person! And the aforementioned apps can help too!

Nothing beats sitting there. Talking to people face to face. I fear that this digital age had driven us apart. And when the world has become a small village. Our homes became a vast desert!

It’s a trouble sign when a married couple who live under the same roof exchange emails or Facebook messages. While being in the same house!!

 

Final words

I hope this post helped you realize what a bad idea it was to sign up to Facebook. And no it’s not free if you think of it. You are anything but free.

Keep in mind. Theses so called social networks are supposed to support your existing life. Not to become it..

This won’t be my last post on the subject. I will add some more input. But as always your input is very important. Comment below and tell me what you think of this post. And if you like it so much 😉 then join my blog to get the latest feeds. And subscribe to my mailing list. 100% free!!!

Have a nice one!! 🙂
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